18 Secrets To Being Undeniably Attractive

Just be yourself!

Thought Catalog

1. Attractiveness has almost nothing to do with how you look physically, though your natural physical disposition does play a small role. It’s mostly, if not entirely, about how you put yourself together and how you behave.

2. The most basic but overlooked staple of being attractive is smelling good. Playing into the other senses, touch (having soft skin), smell (being clean), taste (use your imagination), is what ultimately makes someone undeniably appealing, and tends to be what people will focus on more than just visual.

3. There is no one universally appealing style. It’s about what cut of clothing and accessory will emphasize the best parts of you and your personality.

4. The more you are a kind and likable person, the more people will find you attractive. People are naturally quicker to associate good looks with a good person, and vice versa.

5. Your natural hair color will…

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Choosing a Blog Name: Two WordPressers Share Their Stories

Well I was thinking of creating another blog.. so with my excitements really really high.. I go to my wordpress dashboard.. With shaky fingers I hit the “create another blog” option.. then it ask me to enter my new blog’s name… and dyarraaaan!
My whole world collapse.

I do feel envy to those bloggers who can easily come up with a cool blog name cause I really struggled a lot when it comes to naming my blog. I have to do a lot of mental wrestling.. just to get one ohh at least one good name… and to my dismay.. that one name that took me days of thinking is already taken. Oh crap! Thank you life!

So if you’re just like me.. I think this post might help you do the trick.

The WordPress.com Blog

You’ve been thinking about starting a new blog, but you’re just not sure of one thing: what to name it. WordPressers around the world wrestle with this very important question and over at The Daily Post, we’ve been sharing the secrets behind how bloggers choose to name their online home. Today, we’re excited about sharing the backstory behind two WordPress.com blogs and how they got their names.

Flights. Camera. Satisfaction.


Ben Whittard is a British expat living in Switzerland who documents his travels in photography at Flights. Camera. Satisfaction.

“I love how photography has changed the way I see the world. When I have a camera in my hands I feel closer to the environment, closer to people and more connected to everything I see,” says Ben. “Combined with a love of travel, I really could not be more satisfied! My writing focuses on the places I’ve been, how…

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No More Luv Books Please…!

Just yesterday, I decided to stop reading romantic novels, well maybe stop is not the right term, but as much as possible I’ll try to pick more inspirational or fictional or adventure books now. I am not a man hater, and I completely believe on the power of love but I just realized that by reading and reading romance novels, my brain is starting to create unrealistic expectations about romance.
I’m starting to create standards that are far from “reachable” and build my own definition of a perfect love, and what a perfect lover should be.

Lets face it, everything we consumed from media (books, movies, TV shows, and etc) had led us to create false visions about love.
When I started reading romance novels, and watch romantic movies, and even read romantic mangas, I started fantasizing about guys that I don’t think really exist at all. I set myself to search for this perfect guy, with the perfect hair, with the perfect attitude, with the perfect style, and a perfect smile, with angst, some one who is cool, with humor, smart, successful, gentleman, tall, killer looks, kind, and the perfection list goes on and on and on..

But then I just realized that..  I am not perfect, so how can I expect someone else to be?
And sometimes what we want is not what we need… Humor can’t provide you food, smart ass can’t keep you warm at night, and success cannot determine happiness.

Here’s a phrase to remember..


True love is not about finding the perfect person, it is seeing an imperfect person perfectly

(I don’t make sense at all.. so stop reading this crap!!)

Lab Ju!